Wednesday, January 31, 2007

Those of you familiar with the Law of Attraction can attest to all the wondrous joys and happiness you have manifested into your lives. Changing our thoughts can truly change our lives.

We also know that through the Law of Attraction, we attract into our lives what ever we give our attention, energies, or focus to. This applies to our business as well.

Having tools, such as the T-tool and Desire Statement allows us to define specifically what it is that we desire and enables us to effectively state our desires quite clearly.

Sometimes, even though we are doing everything we have been taught and are using the Law of Attraction correctly, nothing happens. This in itself can be very frustrating and once we become frustrated, we begin adding negative vibrations or energy into the mix. Now, not only is something keeping us from receiving our desire, but we are also getting irritated and frustrated about it. This is when a Law of Attraction Coach can be extremely beneficial.

Generally, when our desires do not manifest, a self limiting belief is to blame.

What is a self limiting belief and how does it affect the Law of Attraction?

I will use money as an example. Personally, I can recall hearing as a small child, when I asked to have a particular toy or something that I may have wanted the phrase “well, money doesn’t grow on trees”. Some of us were told that “nothing comes easy”; you “have to work hard for the money you make”. How about “rich, successful people aren’t nice” or “rich people don’t care about others. By hearing these statements over and over through our developing lives, hearing them first as younf children, we start to believe them. They eventually limit us by placing “terms” in regards to how we may achieve or acquire something we desire.

What ever the belief may be, it can actually keep us from allowing our desire to manifest – especially since the Law of Attraction tells us and shows us how we can manifest our desires so easily. That is, until one of these self limiting beliefs rears its ugly head!

A few of you may have been able to uncover a self limiting belief yourself, realizing it had been preventing you from allowing your desires to manifest. Some may continue to struggle, trying to understand why, after all of their continued, diligent efforts, nothing happens.

Resolving a self limiting belief is a situation that many Law of Attraction practitioners know well. Through coaching, we help our clients to discover what it is that is blocking them from manifesting their desire.

Once they realize what the self limiting belief is, resolving and removing it is the next step.

This is where EFT comes in.

I have seen amazing results, many of which I have experienced myself, using EFT. I use it regularly to help grow both my business as well as my personal life.

But just what is EFT?

EFT, also known as Emotional Freedom Technique, was developed by Gary Craig, a Certified Master Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner, Stanford engineering graduate, and ordained minister. EFT is based on the ancient art of acupuncture. Instead of using needles to stimulate the acupressure meridians, this “emotional version” of acupuncture uses a series of gentle tapping, thus realigning the energy fields of the body. EFT also incorporates the use of affirmations to further enhance the process of removing negative energies that may be causing our blocks.

Upon discovering a self limiting belief, EFT is a marvelous tool which enables us to purge from our bodies the negative energies this self limiting belief has been generating. Once this negative energy is removed, we can then focus on our desires and allow them to manifest in our life.

This wonderful, effective tool is yet another way your Law of Attraction Coach can assist you in skyrocketing your life or business.

To learn more about EFT, visit or contact a Law of Attraction Coach who is instructed in EFT. It can really change your life – for the better!

©2007 Judith A. Wentzel – Life & Business Coach, Law of Attraction Practitioner, EFT & Image Smarter Marketing Specialist. Assisting individuals and small business owners to unleash the power within and skyrocketing their lives and business since 1997.

Friday, January 26, 2007

Have you ever experienced an injury or had something bad creep into your life and wondered, “How did I attract that?”.

Well, it happened to me not long ago. I fell down a flight of stairs, seriously injuring my shoulder and back. It resulted in my having surgery and three screws later, and a lot of sutures, the surgeon reattached my bicep tendon and repaired two tears in the rotator cuff of my shoulder. I was perplexed for several weeks as to how/why this had come into my life.

Prior to surgery, I was filled with anxiety. Not about the procedure but about how I would manage the house, take care of my client’s needs, cook, etc., not to mention dressing and managing myself since I would be unable to use my dominant arm for eight weeks. I was always the one in the family to care for others - even if I was ill or injured myself. I felt it would be a selfish thing to do if I were to stop and let others fill in. After all, I had a husband, a home, and a business to manage.

It was my mentor coach who helped me discover the "magnet" that brought this event into my life. I had been dealing with an extremely emotional family issue for the previous 2 ½ years. It was tormenting me day and night. I was battling depression. Since it was so unpleasant and had been going on for so long, I did not feel comfortable talking to anyone about the situation and frankly felt no one wanted to hear that it was still continuing. My mentor coach helped me see that deep within me had been a need for someone to give me attention, to nurture me and help me. She helped me understand that I had to give myself permission to let go and let others manage things. I had to allow myself to take time off and heal. It was okay.

Allowing others to help was such a simple thing to do but yet so difficult for me. Once I had made the decision to allow myself to take time off, I immediately felt as if a huge weight had been lifted off me. I told my husband about my decision and was surprised that he agreed and was actually looking forward to helping and caring for me. He was glad I had “come to my senses” and would let him do this for me.

After having surgery I was amazed at the love and tenderness that poured out to me. It was something that I sorely needed and it felt wonderful.

That accident was such a blessing. It showed me how important it is to allow others to give assistance. That it was actually a selfish thing for me to do by NOT allowing them in the past. The experience has not only made me a better wife, mother and person, but it has also made me a much more effective coach.

If you have had something you didn’t want or feel you couldn’t have possibly attracted into your life and don’t know why it manifested in the first place, try talking with a law of attraction coach. You will be amazed at what you will discover. I know I was.

Wednesday, January 24, 2007

I recently received the following question by email:

"If a person has a goal of getting out of debt, The Secret says to focus on the intention of bringing in extra money, not getting out of debt. That's kind of hard to do, as a person has to pay bills, plan on which bills to pay first, etc. SO....I was wondering if the LOA would still work - if a person put out two intentions. One to bring in xxx amount of extra money in x period of time. The other is to eliminate these specific debts, in that period of time. In your understanding of the LOA, would they cancel each other out?"

My recommendation: Focus on the main desire which is your financial situation. Focusing on debt will cause you to emit negative vibrations and will in return bring you back more of the same. It is best to focus on prosperity or abundance. When it comes to Law of Attraction, like attracts like. If you focus on negative issues, you invite more of the same into your life. When looking at your finances, make a list (using a T-Tool) of all the things you don't like about your current situation. Then, starting at the top of the list, ask yourself, "So, what do I want?" and list your answer directly across from your first entry. Do this for each of the things you don't like or want in your financial situation. After listing all your wants, these are now the things you will focus on. Using a T-Tool makes gaining clarity about what you actually do want an easier task. You can download one free by visiting my resources page at

If you have a Law of Attraction question, feel free to enter it here on my blog or visit me at and email your question to me at my website. If you would like to learn more about Law of Attraction and how to use it to have more of what you want in your life or business, call or visit to schedule a Law of Attraction Coaching session.

Tuesday, January 23, 2007

Interested in Law of Attraction? Have you seen "The Secret" and still have questions?

Law of Attraction is a natural law of nature which attracts into your life whatever you give your attention, energy and focus to.

Let me give you a couple of examples.

Negative Nellie is a person we have all met at some point in time. She is always complaining about something, generally doesn’t feel the greatest and is usually faced with one dilemma after another.

Positive Patty is a person who seems to always be on a roll. She is always upbeat, seems to enjoy one great event after another, wins things and basically seems to live a charmed life.

Both of these are examples of the Law of Attraction in action. What ever we give our attention, energy and focus to is attracted into our lives. If we have positive, upbeat thoughts, we will attract positive events in to our life. If, on the other hand, we spend our time thinking about negative issues such as debt, lack of free time, unhappy relationships, we are inviting more of the same.

I use the law of attraction all the time and I teach my clients to use it to skyrocket their life and business. There is nothing like it.

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